Teens and COVID-19

Schedules, routines, our very lives have been changed by COVID-19. Entire families have been affected, but social distancing may be especially difficult for teenagers who aren’t able to visit friends and are missing important milestones, such as graduations, proms, and sporting events. Parents may find it difficult to motivate teens to complete school work or daily tasks or keep them engaged in activities due to the current climate.

Please find here some ideas that can provide opportunities for your teen to take on responsibility and contribute to your family and community in ways that are unique and challenging.

Shift responsibilities!

  • If your teen has younger siblings, he or she can help care for them by planning lunch time, creating playtime activities, or finding fun ways to help them complete school work.
  • Can your teens do the dishes and take out the trash? Put them in charge of certain chores, or give them recycling responsibilities and have them research where you can drop off different types of recyclables that may not be collected by your pickup service.
  • If your teen likes to cook, ask him or her to come up with some new recipes, plan the grocery list, and cook a meal for the family.

Maintain virtual connections!

  • Put your teen in charge of creating ways to stay connected with family and friends on a regular basis. For example, themed Zoom chats or virtual game nights can be fun for all age groups.
  • Have your teen create a family email chain that can be used to exchange news, recipes, pictures, and more.
  • See if your teen can use a social media platform as a creative way to do dance battles with family and friends.
  • Is your teen active in the arts, or musically inclined? If so, ask him or her to create a new song or develop a performance to present virtually to family and friends.

Design family projects!

  • Ask your teen to take the lead on a family project (e.g., create a family photo album) that includes the entire family, and ask him or her to delegate roles and responsibilities to each family member – those close and far.
  • If your child is media savvy, ask him or her to take or use existing family photos to create a slide show and have a premier night – make popcorn or s’mores.
  • Suggest that your teen make a family tree, contact grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and other extended family to learn more about his or her family history.
  • Have your child create a virtual 5K for family and friends to participate in together.

Declutter and donate!

  • Ask teens to go through their rooms and pick clothes that do not fit or toys or old games they no longer use and package them for donation.
  • Talk to your teen about organizing a family garage or basement clean-out, and throw away or donate items that are no longer in use.

Volunteer within the community!

  • There are many volunteer opportunities in communities that follow social distancing guidelines.
    • Ask your teen to search online for opportunities in which they can help others, such as working in a group to plant or maintain the community garden or collecting food for the food pantry.
    • Suggest your teen use his or her social media platform to spread acts of kindness or make someone feel special (e.g., sharing a positive post about a friend or family member, using Facebook to raise money for a charity).

Helping teens discover ways to take on more responsibility and become leaders in their families and communities is a great use of energy. It can help support their self-esteem and allow them to contribute. In addition, being of service to others may help to mitigate feelings of depression and loneliness.


American Academy of Pediatrics. (2020). Teens and Covid-19: Challenges and opportunities during the outbreak. Retrieved from

Tips for Working at Home with Kids

Father working from home with son

With the recent COVID-19 outbreak, school-aged children have received a break from attending schools and, in some cases, classes, and this break could last a few weeks or even longer. Many parents have shifted their work responsibilities to an in-home environment. Balancing the demands of telework and regular life with school-aged children at home, in addition to infants and toddlers at home, can be extremely challenging.

Here are some tips to help balance your own work responsibilities and manage your children at home.


  • Keep your regular morning routines even though the children may not be physically going to school (e.g., wake up, brush teeth, get dressed, eat breakfast).
  • Remain in communication with your child’s teachers and school to help plan daily activities. You can make a schedule of what your child can do throughout the day.
    • Reading time
    • Math
    • Lunch
    • Recess
    • Music
  • Bedtime routines help keep your children on track. Just because there is no school doesn’t mean they can’t keep their same bedtime!
  • To help keep the routine, make a chart for your child to look at so he or she can feel independent, track his or her activities, and learn how to manage his or her time.

Example Schedule:

Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday
Breakfast Breakfast Breakfast Breakfast Breakfast
Reading Math Reading Math Science
Playtime Screen time Art Music Playtime

Energy Management

  • Go outside with your kids to take a walk around the block or in nature, or kick a soccer ball in the yard, or play tag.
  • If it’s raining outside, have a dance party or play Simon Says or any physical board game, like Twister!
  • Screen time is inevitable during these challenging times. Regulating recreational screen time can be difficult, but creating and using a media plan can be helpful.
    • Limit screen time by blocking out periods of time when your children can watch specific shows on TV or play specific video games. Be sure to explain when these times will occur and how long these periods of time will be to your children. You could use a chart, like the example one above, to help young children visualize these concepts.
    • Watch TV shows or surf the internet with your kids so you can ensure they are viewing age-appropriate media. You can take this opportunity to talk about safe media usage and to connect with your child.
    • Visit and engage in educational or story time apps with your children.
      • PBS Kids (ages 2+)
      • Fish School (preschoolers)
      • Phonics Ninja (ages 4+)
      • Todo Math (ages 5+)
      • Scratch Jr. teaches kids how to code (ages 5+)
      • Middle School Math Planet (supports Common Core ages 10+)
      • Science 360 (ages 12+)
      • Coolmath games (ages 13+)
      • Storyline Online
    • Explore the following websites with your child to find some fun age-appropriate activities.


Remember to practice self-care as a parent right now. You are juggling work, children, and homeschool responsibilities while living in an uncertain world right now.  It is normal and understandable that you may feel increased stress and anxiety. Try some of these tips to help you cope with your new reality right now.

  • Keep your routine as a parent.
  • Make sure to fit in the activities that make you feel grounded, like reading for 30 minutes uninterrupted.
  • Eat the foods that make you feel good.
  • Release stress by engaging in exercise. If you are used to going to a gym, go up and down the stairs in your home to get your heart going or take a fast walk, without the children, to clear your head!
  • Reach out to your network of family and friends.

At the end of the day Mom, Dad, Parental Unit, give yourselves a break. You are doing the best you can under extreme circumstances!

Managing Anxiety and Stress during the COVID-19 Outbreak

Mother sitting with her head on her knees

Routines can be essential for positive family functioning, such as maintaining daily school routines, participating in after-school activities, sharing mealtimes with family members, and getting adequate sleep. But, sometimes routines are disrupted, which can cause feelings of anxiety, stress, and insecurity (Spagnola & Fiese, 2007; Yoon, 2014).

The current national crisis surrounding the novel coronavirus, or COVID-19, has forced schools, gyms, and non-essential businesses to close and events to be cancelled in response to the pandemic. These changes can greatly impact individual and family daily routines (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention [CDC], 2020) and upset individual family members.

Adjustments to a daily routine can cause youth to experience sadness, to focus heavily on the details of the pandemic or avoid them all together, to encounter trouble concentrating, to become overwhelmed with emotions, to have difficulty setting priorities, to encounter conflict with family members and friends, to develop a loss of interest in activities, to become detached, and to experience problems sleeping and changes in appetite (CDC, 2018; CDC, 2019; Substance Abuse and Mental Health Service Administration [SAMHSA], 2013).

Below are some tips to help yourself and your children process changes that have occurred in our daily lives and remain healthy – mentally and physically.

Remain calm. Be mindful of your transmission of stress and anxiety relating to COVID-19 because children, especially younger children, can pick up on mood changes very quickly (Beyondblue, 2013). Children look at their parents as role models and try to imitate their parents’ behaviors.  Remember calm breeds calm. If you respond with anxiety, there is an increased likelihood your children will exhibit similar behaviors (Burnstein & Ginsburg, 2010). If you feel overwhelmed, take 10 deep breaths. Observe your child’s body language and verbal cues; these signals may show you if he or she is upset or how distressed he or she may be. Validate your child’s concerns and strategize solutions together (Shin, Quinones-Camacho, Karan, & Davis, 2018).

Ensure basic essentials are met.  Remind your family of the efforts that your family has already made to prepare for this pandemic, such as buying larger quantities of food items for later use; ensuring you have reliable transportation; and discussing some precautions, like washing hands frequently and using hand sanitizers, you are following. Share and develop a plan to have in place if one of your family members becomes infected (CDC, 2019).

Provide factual information to children. In an age-appropriate way, explain to your children the facts using reliable resources provided by the CDC and the National Institutes of Health (NIH). Limit exposure of information about the virus via the television, internet, and social media, and beware of the false information your children can be exposed to by their peers. Keep in mind that, during difficult situations, episodic depression and anxiety could pop up in your home (Kessler, Petukhova, Sampson, Zaslavsky, & Wittchen, 2012). Encourage your children to ask questions and continue to reassure them you are taking preventative measures to ensure everyone’s safety (SAMSHA, 2020).

Look for indicators in children.  Stress stems from a perception of fear. Fear of the unknown can be extremely complex (Carleton, 2016), and it is often coupled with anxiety and stress. For more information on warning signs for children and teenagers with depression, consult the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2019).

Mitigate Stress and Anxiety. Research has shown that preventative interventions to reduce externalizing and internalizing problems can increase positive family interactions (Sadler, Ingram, Wolchik, Tein, & Winslow, E., 2015). We are all maintaining close living situations during the COVID-19 pandemic.  Below are some ideas for how you can mitigate stress and anxiety in your household (Dillon, 2018; Edwards, 2016).

  • Boost positive behaviors by establishing a new daily routine.
  • Eat healthy meals together.
  • Continue to engage in 60 minutes of physical activity. The 60 minutes can be broken up into shorter blocks of time (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2018).
  • Practice active listening to your children’s concerns.
  • Ensure everyone is getting enough rest.
  • Schedule breaks to relax, listen to music, and read, or find something that makes you laugh.
  • Use communication media to continue social interaction with family and friends.
  • Consider using mindfulness meditation. Insight Timer is a free application with guided meditation.

Additional Resources

Access to educational activities available during COVID-19: 

Storyline Online is available 24 hours a day. You can select your video streaming preference to stream the story of your selection for your child. Each book includes supplemental curriculum, developed by a credentialed elementary educator, that aims to strengthen comprehension and verbal and written skills for learners.

Starfall is a language arts and math website for pre-kindergarten children to 3rd graders. Although you can register for a paid subscription for full access, simply clicking on the age range will take you to activities that are available for free to test their database.

International Children’s Digital Library. This library is available for children, parents, and educators and is offered in various languages. Registration is necessary to utilize the features found in this library, such as saving books, returning them, and searching for materials in the language of your choice.

ABCya is a resource of educational games for children in kindergarten to 6th grade. Math, Language Arts, Strategy, and Skill are the focus areas. Without a subscription, some of the games are unavailable.

Storynory provides free audiobooks for children.

National Geographic Young Explorer offers articles for children who are 6 years old and older in Scout and Voyager editions. To read previous issues, click the more issues tab.

Oxford Owl is an educational resource for children who are 3-11 years old.

SimplyE app provides access to the New York Public Library. You must apply for a library card to gain access to the library. This is free. worksheets provide free worksheets for learners in kindergarten to 12th grade.  

Google Arts and Culture engages audiences in virtual tours of museums around the world.

Lunch doodles with Mo Willems is offered every day at 1:00 p.m. Eastern Standard Time. Join Mo Willems and draw with pencils, paper, and crayons with this Kennedy Center artist.

Virtual Zoo Lessons and Live Streaming is available via Facebook and websites Monday through Friday at various times throughout the day:

Caribu is a video calling application that allows adults and children up to 7 years old to read books, color, draw, and complete other activities over the internet. During COVID-19, access is free for everyone. Additionally, anyone with a .mil email address can have free subscription access when their family is verified through Blue Star Families.

Prodigy is a math curriculum resource for 1st to 6th grade students. Free and paid memberships are available.

Khan academy offers self-pace learning for children of all ages in various core subjects.

Mystery Science offers science lessons for kindergarten to 5th grade students.

History for Kids offers free history and geography lessons for children.


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